*This also might not be in the right sub-forum so I apologize in advance if thats the case.
Hello, My name is Noira (Noai in-game) or Ragaz if you play CB1. I was originally a CBT who only played for a couple of hours before I quit. Now coming back, I've been playing Onigiri for a good week now and I can honestly say that I'm enjoy it so far. Since I didn't understand most of the games dos and donts, I looked at Youtube videos and asked questions in the questions thread (Thanks for everyone who answered my questions). I was introduced to the EXP Ticket Dungeon when I was around level 70 and used it to get to 113 where I am currently. I hadn't understood the consequences of speed leveling until I saw Auro's video on Friendship Items and immediately regretted my decision. I was optimistic that I could get through it (I had already spent a considerable amount of time and didn't want to abandon my partners that I had gotten from the nyankoropon) and thus I got all the way to Satan (which I was able to complete even though I got my ass handed to me).
After all of this, one of the players that was currently in the sewers asked me if I could show him my gear and while I was a bit confused, I showed him it. It wasn't great, but it had gotten me this far in the game so I was pretty happy with it. Needless to say, he didn't seem to happy when he saw my gear and began telling me what I should do. I was in awe and explained my situation about using the EXP Tickets. This was when his entire demeanor changed. He accused me of "not doing it legit" and basically told me to make a new character and not to use the EXP Tickets until I was more acquainted with the game. I told him that I would consider it, but I wasn't going to give up on my character just yet. After this, we went back and forth about what i "should" do until I he gave up and ended the conversation with a very passive-aggressive, "so i will give up on you ^^ good luck without RUSH LVL way".
While I can totally see how he was trying to help me, I specifically told him that I wasn't going to give up on my character just because I was overleveled. I'm all up for suggestions for how I should proceed with the game in my current condition, but telling me to do something that I don't want to do repeatedly isn't going to benefit me in any way. I truly hope that the remainder of the community isn't like this and that this whole experience was one of the few I'll have to experience throughout my Onigiri career.