Just wondering which dungeons drop good wands. All other dungeons drop the other weapons, but it seems that wands are hard to come by. Where can I farm wands that are around 35+ (like Yatsuka) or 40+ (??). Thanks

You should search in the Kyoto Area i think in Nishidera /Gedomarou you'll get goods )

You can get lvl 30-39 wand, kishouten (white), wind talisman (blue), or yatsuka (red) from gedoumaru's or yakumo
At yakumo, sometimes you get lvl 40ish too.
If you want farm lvl 40-49 like daikokuten (white) or even 50ish, i usually farm it from okuizumo.
Wish you a good luck